today when i woke up i surf facebook via my BB and i was curious with the links which my friends shared at facebook. i was wonder what's that and i thought maybe it's a quite touching story thats why all my friends shared it. Driven by my curiosity, i would like to know what's the story about and i immediately on my laptop and opened up that note. my goodness! my mind was empty after i read the note that the guy wrote for his ex-girlfriend. from his notes, all of us know that he really very love his girlfriend and very good to her. He loves her, he loves her till the moment he die, he said it he meant it. He really did what he promised to his girlfriends but then because of all these promises, he lost his life. life is so precious to every of us. why he didn't think about this?Because of he loves that girl so much so he chose to commit suicide to express his love to his ex-girlfriend without bothering his family members. yeah. undeniably it's touching and he's a great guy but then he chosen to simply end up his life at this young age just because he can't accept the girlfriend left him. what a pity.. :/

I've realized something from this case - "I would choose to live for him but for sure i won't choose to die for him. I've promised I'd love him till the day I die but then I'd never choose to end my own life to fulfill this promise. Because I want him to be happy instead of suffer. I want to be his fond memories, not the most painful memories even he don't love me anymore. I'd will to wait for years to prove my love for him and to fulfill my promise to him rather than end my life to prove it all the way. No matter what was promised, the main thing which go first at the end would be beneficial and harmless to him. In my opinion, that's the most important one."

从这案件, 我领悟到 - "我会选择为他而生但决不会选择为你而死.. 我曾答应, 我会爱他爱到我死的那一天但我决不会结束自己的生命去兑现这承诺.. 因为我要他快乐而不是要他痛苦.. 我要成为他最美好回忆而不是最痛苦的回忆即使他不再爱我.. 我愿意以等的方式与岁月去证明我对他的爱, 去兑现我对他的承诺而不是以结束生命的方式去证明这一切.. 无论曾经答应些什么到最后所有都是以他快乐以及对他有利而无害的这一点为先.."

(P/S: this is what I learned from the case. Please don't think that i have such thinking like that guy or any others. thank you to my readers.)